[ceph-users] Continuing Ceph Issues with OSDs falling over

I'm still attempting to build a ceph cluster and I'm currently getting nowhere very very quickly. From what I can tell I have a slightly unstable setup and I'm yet to work out why. I currently have 24 servers and I'm planning to increase this to around 48 These servers are in three groups with different types of disks (and number) in each type. Currently I'm having an issue where every time I add a new server it adds the osd on the node and then a few random ods on the current hosts will all fall over and I'll only be able to get them up again by restart the daemons. I'm using cephadm. and the network is a QDR based IB network running IP over IB so its meant to be 40G but currently is behaving more like 10G (when I've tested it) Its still faster than the 1G management network I've also got. The machines are mostly running debian. There are a few machine running CentOS7 I'm meaning to redeploy when I get the time (so I can upgrade to Pacific) I'm running Octopus 15.2.13, I'm more than happy to change stuff I'm still trying to learn stuff so there is no data that I care about quite yet, I was looking for more stability before I go there. I really just want to know where to look for the problems rather than any exact answers, I'm yet to see any clues that might help Thanks in advance Peter Childs